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Stuck in the past
| Sun, 02-22-2004 - 11:54am |
I need advice. I'm married now for four years and have a 3 year old daughter. I care for my husband but we have a relationship full of conflict and turmoil. I do not feel we underderstand each other. Starting two years ago I found myself fantasizing about my first boyfriend of 10 years ago. I dream about him and I cannot get him out my head. I decided to contact him a year ago but was unsuccessful in locating him. A month ago I attended a conference and there he was walking toward me. My heart sunk and jumped all at once. I was so excited that I wanted to kiss him and run away with him. I found out he's unhappily married and constantly misses me. He even drives by my mom's house occasionally. We just started having an affair and I felt I was home. I'm afraid of what may happen and I definitely do not want to be a home wrecker. My husband will not find out because he's behind bars but his wife could. Would it be worth staying to find out what can happen or should I walk away? Is it destiny or not?

Just because your husband is in jail it is not an excuse for you to have an affair. To me cheating and affairs are acts of total selfishness. With affairs there is no respect for anyone else but yourself.
If you want to move forward in your life then contact an attorney and get a divorce started.