Opinions NEEDED on this man PLEASE!!!!

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Registered: 02-15-2004
Opinions NEEDED on this man PLEASE!!!!
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Sun, 02-22-2004 - 3:39pm
Men sure are confusing. I'm in a long-term relationship,and about 5-6 months ago another man came into my life,we both liked eachother LOTS. Recently I wasn't sure if he really liked me or was using me for something else. So yesterday I told him how I felt,he figured I was just trying to find a reason not to like him.Near the end of the conversation he said how he loved holding me/kissing me and that I felt good. But then I seen him last night and he was all grumpy with me because what we had talked about in the morning. Is he mad because I figured out that he is playing me??or is he mad because I thought he was playing me when he actually did like me?? Please help ladies.
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Sun, 02-22-2004 - 4:24pm

Maybe he thinks you're playing HIM, since you are involved in a LTR with someone else.


In any event, you should fix your LTR or end it, rather

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Sun, 02-22-2004 - 6:48pm
Thanks for the advice Sheri,

I have been trying to figure out weather to leave the current for the new guy. Because the new guy doesn't want to get involved while I already am,understandably.

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Registered: 02-22-2004
Sun, 02-22-2004 - 7:19pm
you know... there are times in which a guy just has a hard decision on his hands: and if you were too good for him, he won't tell you straight away what he feels. But he just won't say "give me some time to think" because it just adds up to the pressure.