why don't any of u ever reply?????

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Registered: 02-15-2004
why don't any of u ever reply?????
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Sun, 02-22-2004 - 4:00pm
I really really need someone to talk to about all that i have posted,why don't any of you ever reply????? Is it my name????? the topics I choose???? btw I am Belle7480 too


Edited 2/22/2004 4:01:46 PM ET by mmmstickybud
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Sun, 02-22-2004 - 4:56pm
I think it's because you're asking how to continue to cheat on your SO and also you're asking us to read the mind of someone who knows you are not the type of woman with integrity when it comes to being faithful in a relationship - it's hard enough to read someone's mind but even more difficult when the situation is as complicated and selfish/self absorbed as you describe. Perhaps the reason you need instant gratification here is a clue to why you can so quickly be distracted by another man when you're in a committed relationship.
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Registered: 02-15-2004
Mon, 02-23-2004 - 12:45am
I'm not asking how to cheat,I'm just having a hard time who to choose. But think whatever you want Deena!!
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Registered: 04-13-2003
Mon, 02-23-2004 - 8:15am
It seems to me a few people have replied to your posts, as I'm doing now.

Why do you post under two different names? That's confusing, and hard to keep straight who you are.

And also, from reading two of your other posts just now, it seems your values and way of living life are different than most of the posters here. In my opinion, cheating on a lover is very wrong, and I personally cannot relate. Because of this, I wouldn't be able to give you advice on that topic. That is an example of why not too many people have been replying to you.

Also, maybe you shouldn't talk so much about drug use on this board....

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Registered: 07-24-2003
Mon, 02-23-2004 - 9:05am
Since you asked the question, I would think that you aren't receiving many replies because of the topics you choose.

I think you may find this board to be more suitable for you... if you are looking for support for cheating on a partner.


http://messageboards.ivillage.com/iv-rlmyaffair


I really don't think you will find many here who are willing to promote cheating. You should get out of one thing before you get into another, it's less complicated that way.


tg

 
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Registered: 06-08-2002
Mon, 02-23-2004 - 10:09am
The only thing I would have written to you had I chosen to reply is that I can't relate to your lifestyle. Drug use and flirting/kissing/carrying on with another guy when you are in a LTR with someone else is difficult for me to relate to, so unless I want to comment on that per se, I choose not to comment at all. You sound very young and in my view, on the wrong path in your life. It's kind of pitiful that you can't tell whether a guy really likes you or just wants to smoke your drugs. Maybe you need to reexamine your lifestyle.