approaching a guy(2 scenarios)
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| Sun, 02-22-2004 - 8:05pm |
how should a girl approach a guy in these 2 scenarios...:
1. both have seen each n said hello n hi. but that's it. they dont even know each others' names. the guy takes no initiative to intoduce himself, maybe he is shy. but he always smiles.
2. the girl has seen the guy but the guy hasn't even seen/met/talked with the girl.
the girl is "me" in both cases.
the 2nd scenario is most intriguing to me. this guy is also a student, but is involved in totally different things. he doesnt know i exist. we dont even run into each other. how bout writing n email, or visiting with him to talk bout something he is interested in. he is a very involved committee member in the student govt. in our university. is it too tacky?
what's the best way to approach.. what r the right words to say.. what r my boundaries when i first approach them. both these people are nice people. don't want to start off wrong.
please advise..
thank you..

I know where you are coming from and just posted something similiar about a hottie in the lobbie that doesn't know I exist. But you got the upper hand in this one since he is involved in Student gov't. If you really want him to get to know you show up to a student gov't meeting. If it is like my university our student gov meetings are open to all students. If not then BS him and ask him about being part of student gov for the following year. that way atleast you will get him to notice you. (Unless you really want to be in Student gov) I hope that helps. Good Luck