boyfriend, ex-wife,2kids,long dist.
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boyfriend, ex-wife,2kids,long dist.
| Mon, 02-23-2004 - 12:48am |
I have a highschool boyfriend whom contacted me after his failed marriage and 2 kids about 3 years ago. He lives 4 hours away. we talked for 3 years(I had a boyfriend at the time) then 6 months ago proceeded to have a long distance relationship. About 3 weeks ago, I was going to move to where he lives... but the idea of living together after skipping the "dating" part, an ex-wife whom wants him back and lives a stone's throw away, and 2 kids... I was like "whoah"....
I am so damn confused... do I continue trying to make it work? or are there too many uncontrollable issues that have made me need some space? What does that mean????
I am so damn confused... do I continue trying to make it work? or are there too many uncontrollable issues that have made me need some space? What does that mean????

I think that your intuition is telling you that something is not right. Maybe it's that you have doubts about him. Maybe it's that you don't want to live together (I wouldn't move in w/someone unless I was engaged). Maybe it's that you like your job and your home and don't want to leave. Maybe it's something else. But something is holding you back, and I think you would be wise to wait until you know for sure what you want to do.