How does he feel???
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| Mon, 02-23-2004 - 3:57pm |
This is going to be a long one, but i really hope some of you read it and gimme your thoughts!!!! Thanks in advance!!!!
OKay so i went to high school with a boy named O , i never really paid any attention to him cause he was 2 years older then me and we had none of the same friends. But a few months ago me and ma friend Jenny were going to go to the movies (jenny and O are friends... but nothing more!!!!!!) And right before we were gonna leave she called to see if O could come to andi said shure, i haveent seen O for about 2 years but we talked causally nothing speicail. And then a few days after the movies he added me to his MSN and we talked on there a little, and then on new years eve he told me to phone him. That night me and Jenny went to some party and he phoned her cell phone tellin her that me and her should go to the party he is at, but Jenny just said NO and then got off the phone. At like 1230 i decided to call him and wish him a happy newyears. We ended up talking on the phone for like an hour while both being at parties. NEways he ended up picking me up from this party, and we went back to his house and watched a movie and we kissed (buts thats it). So then the next day i talked to him on msn and he come over to my house and we watched a movie (but we didnt kiss or nothing). The next day he left for work. O works out of town so he leaves for 2 weeks comes for 1 week. So he left and then when he came home 2 weeks later we talked on msn and that and then he come over one night and we watched a movie. But we never kissed agian we would just talk... so yah he ended up being home for about 2 weeks cause of the weather. but we talk pretty much every few days and we watched another movie. Then he started to call me late at nights. Like on saturdays nights he would go to the bar and when he would get out of the bar he would phone me and we would talk for a bit. I didnt mind that he wont phone late becuase i would usally still be out or just be gettin home.
Okay sooo then he left for work again and then we he would get home we would talk on msn, but we never really hung out becuase it was soooo cold here that we didnt want to leave our houses. But anyways so one night he finally did come over and we watched a movie and then after the movie we were just in ma room talking and we started to kiss ( this is all we did was kiss). It was AWESOME. The next day though he was leaving again for work and we were gona hang out but something came up on my end and i called him and left him know and we ended up talking on the phone for 2 hours!!! then while he was away at work it had been about one week and he sent me a text message asking me if i wanted to do something when he came home in one week and i said yah if i wanst busy, so he said he would phone thursday when he got home at like 11 or 12 at night. But thursday came around and he never phoned. Which i didnt mind to much casue i worked the next day anyways. But then friday at about 8pm i text him and asked what he was doing and he said he was on a ski trip and wanst going to be home before he went back to work.
So after hearing that i decided that i was just going to forget about him b/c i wounldnt be able to see him for another 3 weeks and it was just gettin stupid. But then at like 4 in the morning on friday he phoned my cell phone and we ended up talking for a while but he was saying that he missed me and that he cant wait to see me agian and that he wishes i could be there skiing with him and blah blah. So that totally confused me.
Then the next day i was at some party and ended up talking to some girl who knows him and likes him!!!!!! She had no idea that i like him or even knew him she was just talkin gbaout him and everything. So then on tuesday (he was back at work by this time) I text him and said that i had meet a gurl who knew him.. and we text back and forth for a bit then he asked if he could call me so i said yeah and we ended up on the phone for like and hour and a half just talking. When we ended the call he said he would phone me if he got tha chance or he would just call me when he got home. Soo that was a week ago, he will be home thursday late at night. I am just soooooooo confused with this guy. Whenever we talk or hang out it totally cool, but i dunno if he likes me or just wants ass or what he feels. We never EVER talk about me and him in a relationship way we just chill and talk ya know. So i dont know how to find out if he likes me. Or do you think he is just using me? I know that he has used girls in the past b/c he told me... i just am soooooooo confused and dont know what to do. If you guys have any adivce that would rock. thanks
kasha

In contrast all your detailed descriptions boil down to the simple fact that he is not treating you with respect, like a lady, or reliably - you're chatting on the phone for hours with someone who can't bother to keep or make plans with you, and you're making yourself available at all hours of the day and night - you're afterthought girl and last minute girl and most men I know wouldn't want to be serious with those types of girls because there's no respect there.
Think about what you're worth and I am sure you'll make a healthy choice.