Should I wait or should I call?

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Registered: 02-12-2004
Should I wait or should I call?
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Tue, 02-24-2004 - 11:31am
I met this great guy at a party. After several phone calls, we managed to meet two weeks later. It was a short presentation meeting, and I found out that he wasn't exactly the guy I had fantasized about. But I'd love to go out with him again. At the meeting, he asked me to meet again. I said OK. But, he hasn't called, since saturday (the day we met). Is he interested or not? Should I wait for his call or should I call him???
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Tue, 02-24-2004 - 11:47am











Well he is at work and like most men he problay forgot I would wait and let him call you but if he doesn't call you by Friday make your own plans and go out and have fun and then call him Sunday 2/29 and ask him how his week went and if you could go out with him the following Saturday if he still doesn't call you back then move on to someone better :)


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Registered: 08-07-2003
Tue, 02-24-2004 - 12:36pm
How did you leave things at the end of your first date? Did you pick a date to meet again? Did he say he would call?

Assuming that your answer to both of these questions is no, I would not call him. He asked you out and so he should follow up with more definite plans as to when, where, etc. In the meantime, don't put your life on hold, if another offer for this weekend comes along and you want to go, take it!


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Tue, 02-24-2004 - 12:45pm
I wouldn't call him.