To Mysterious32

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To Mysterious32
Tue, 02-24-2004 - 12:22pm
I read your post in the dating a co-worker and thought I'd reply to you personally.

I remember you. I remember you because I had been in an exact same situation as you are currently in with this guy. It's not surprising that since you've backed off, he's coming after you again. Same happened to me. What I would advise you to do is continue what you're doing. Back off. Just be business and polite to him UNTIL he actually asks you out and follows through, then you know he's really interested.

I was in the same scenario you described. This guy was all over me. Flirting and so forth. He wouldn't back down. Even when I showed signs that I was backing off, he'd call me with work related things and asking me to come down and sit with him on work related projects in which he'd flirt his tail off with me once I came to see him. Once I began to really show him signs I was interested, he backed off. I was confused. I later found out he was in a serious relationship.

I know how you feel. A cute guy flirting and showing you so much attention. I'm sure he acts jealous and hurt when you ignore him right? Sure he does. He's confused and he's enjoying the flirting with you. He might be attracted and probably wants a little you know what but until he actually asks you out and follows through, then you have to assume he's not all that interested in you romantically.