patience needed on my part??

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Registered: 10-17-2003
patience needed on my part??
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Wed, 02-25-2004 - 3:27pm


There is a guy that I ended up getting together with a couple weekends ago, and now i am interested in having a sexual relationship with him(we didn't have sex that night though). We spoke with each other on the phone briefly a couple times, and then when I saw him, there were other people around so we haven't had a chance to actually talk about anything. He asked if I wanted to go hiking or something this week, but hasn't called. He is a busy guy; he owns his own business and he is busy renovating right now. I am tempted to call him and ask him to meet me as I am going to be near where he lives tonight so I can tell him what I want, but I'm not sure if I should just wait and let him come to me. Any advice sisters?? The waiting to tell him is killing me!

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Wed, 02-25-2004 - 3:40pm
If all you want is sex from him of course you should call him - why the hesitation? I do not advocate pursuing men in the beginning if you want the chance at a healthy loving relationship - or even just a healthy dating relationship - but if all you want is sex (and my guess is you are hesitating because if you were honest with yourself you would admit to wanting more) then of course you should pursue him and make your intentions clear. If he is too busy to have sex with you that should tell you something.