Excuse when he is not interested
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Excuse when he is not interested
| Wed, 02-25-2004 - 4:33pm |
I went on 4 dates with this guy I have been seeing for one month. Just recently...he told me that he found out that he has to pay for quite a bit of money to get very minor body work on his motorcycle done. Mind you, This repair was needed way before I started seeing him a month ago. Suddenly he tells me that he hopes I don't mind but he can't go out and has to stay in for awhile now because he has to save up for this...and won't be able to socialize. He giving me the brush off? Every bone in my being seems to be screaming....YES!

NOW- if this were a longer term, solid, loving relationship, I'd say cut him some slack for a short bit. He loves his machine, be understanding.
But it sounds to me as if he is trying to let you down easy- it's almost in a cowardly way.
**Disclaimer, this is only my humble opinion**
"Every bone in my being seems to be screaming....YES!"
.........then again, YOUR gut intuition always seems to be right............
OK. All that means is that he's not the one for you. Keep moving on and you'll find someone who wants to spend lots of time with you, and he'll find a way to do it with what money he's got.