When men leave women "hanging"?
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When men leave women "hanging"?
| Wed, 02-25-2004 - 6:51pm |
Question........why do men talk about a woman to all of his friends, have a great time with her on a date, call her everyday for a few weeks to see what she's up to, leave sweet messages on her voicemail each night, open doors for her, then all of a sudden.............stop calling, only to call once and say You were on my mind....and then stop calling again....for weeks.
Guys or ladies (if you have a clue) please explain this. It just doesn't make any sense!!!!!!

If you find this is happening to you a lot... that guys are pursuing you hotly and then disappearing...you might want to reevaluate how YOU behave in the beginning of a dating relationship. Maybe you're giving off "clingy" signals that make men shy away from you.
I know it's confusing, because it was the man who was coming after YOU like gangbusters, after all. But don't read too much into that. Just because a man is calling every day doesn't mean he is the one you should be with. You can control how available you are. Just keep it light, don't expect too much and don't take them so seriously, until you both decide it is serious.
If this is an isolated situation, I wouldn't spend any more time worrying over this guy. There was no commitment and no promise... just a couple of dates. So he was under no obligation to call you any more. A lot of people prefer to "fade away" when they lose interest, rather than make a big announcement.
And if he already has a girlfriend, why are you even worried about him at all? He's not worth another thought if he's trying to cheat.
There are plenty of men who are sincere and who will not leave you "hangin," unless you run them away, somehow.