Dating someone new
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Dating someone new
| Thu, 02-26-2004 - 8:16am |
I just met a man and we went out on our first date last week. We have talked on the phone a few times and are planning to go out again next week. While we were talking we both started lightly flirting and he made a comment regarding sex that I'm not uncomfortable about, but I didn't quite say what I really wanted to say to him at the time and now I do want to say something about it so he knows where I'm coming from. I'm not usually at a loss for words, but for some reason it caught me off guard. What is a tactful, but clear way to tell a guy you're interested in that sex in a new relationship will happen after we know each other more? I know I just said it, but I want to be able to tell him during the course of our night out and still have a nice evening, so he will know where I'm coming from. I don't want to avoid the issue and not say anything about it at all.

Hard to say more than that w/o knowing what he said.
I don't believe in being nasty or harsh - but I do believe in being direct, and not apologetic at all and not wishy washy.
It's been my experience that men who talk about sex with me before we've even kissed are almost always looking for