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| Thu, 02-26-2004 - 11:41am |
Hello :)
Need some advice here.. The first time I had any sexual experience after the ending of my eight year relationship with a man ... and it SUCKED :(
Not that I want to go crawling back to my ex... but I might after that...
This guy I met is great... he has a wonderful personality .. kinda cute.. we get along really well, and I am thinking that there's no way he will get better in bed .. IS THERE?
YIKES.. please gimme some advice, should I keep seeing him, because I do think he's a great guy, or do I make up some excuse of why I can't see him anymore??
Thanks,
sincerely,
K

Yes we had sex fairly soon, like 2nd date.. I guess I'm not exactly proud of the fact that I was that easy.. I really dont think about being alone as a bad thing, I dont regret it either. I do think that the quality of sex is very important... maybe I should give him another chance, but, call me greedy, he didnt have that much to work with :(
p.s. thanks for replying and trying to help me ;)
-k
If you enjoy sex, then for a relationship to be successful you need to enjoy sex with the person you are with.
Having said that, it depends on why it was bad. If he just has poor sex skills, then teach him how to please you. If he couldn't keep it hard or came right away, then I would seriously consider moving on. (Of course, those type problems can sometimes be solved but if he wanted to fix himself, he probably would have done it by now).