does he lyk me???

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does he lyk me???
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Fri, 02-27-2004 - 7:01pm
i know this guy from college who is in the year above. im really good friends with his best m8 now, but the guy i lyk is really shy. we tlk quite a lot on msn, and my friends say that he sounds lyk he lyks me, but im not sure. he knows tht i lyk him, and im not sure if this is a bit of an put-off for him. when we talk he's always really nice, but we dont tlk face to face because we are both so shy. ne one else been here b4?


Edited 2/27/2004 7:09:04 PM ET by princess_fiona123
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Fri, 02-27-2004 - 7:13pm
It sounds to me like the best thing you can do for yourself is focus on your education and on working on getting really good grades so that you have many and varied career options. I think if he is that shy that he cannot even call you and ask you to have lunch then he is not emotionally ready for a healthy relationship. Shift your focus to your studies and you will attract men who inspire you to come out of your shell.
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Fri, 02-27-2004 - 7:26pm
im not worried bout that - my skl works going fine, but since i started getting on with this guy, ive started to get so much more positive about myself. I used to hate myself, and tell myself i was ugly, and i spent about 6 years being totally depressed, but I was really lucky to have come out of that by myself. Meeting this guy ahs really made me happy though, and I don't want to give this up, or let it turn out like my last boyf, when I left things too late, and by the time we got together, I'd already fallen for someone else. I'm not confident enough to ask him out, but if I try to forget about him, then I'll be feeling awful again, and if I don't, then I won't know what to think :S.
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Registered: 10-26-2003
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Fri, 02-27-2004 - 10:25pm
>>he knows tht i lyk him,

Does he? Does he REALLY know? You can't always assume what other people know - what might seem obvious to you might not be so obvious to him, so unless you've made it super clear he might not actually know.

"The single biggest problem in communication is the illusion that it has taken place" - George Bernard Shaw