Did I really screw up?
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| Fri, 02-27-2004 - 11:42pm |
Here's where I'm hoping (really hoping) I didn't just screw this up. When we went to the movie tonight, I offered to buy the tickets since he has bought dinner both nights we went out. I did it for no other reason than to be nice (or so I thought) He said he didn't expect me to pay for anything but thanked me for getting the tickets. I was just being me, really. I'm not used to anyone paying my way all the time and have always, at some point, at least offered to share the cost. I know, not the smartest thing but don't yell at me too much! He didn't seem offended and it was after the movie that he suggested coffee and then mentioned getting together again soon.
Am I just thinking too much about this? Should I just not worry about it and wait for him to contact me again to go out? I like this guy and I think we have a chance at something. If I'm reading him right, and reading his body language right, I think he's interested in me also. I know I sound like a teenager but I'm really out of practice. This is the first guy I've met in a long time I really like. So forgive me for sounding dumb. But I'd really appreciate some views from those of you with a little more experience. Last time I dated someone, it ended badly. I don't want to screw this up before it really has a chance.
Thanks for letting me ramble.

I'm a little confused, are you asking if you screwed up by paying for the movie tickets?
Next few times, let him pay :)
I think you are over-analyzing and stressing yourself out way too much. Just go out on dates and be yourself and have fun! Don't worry about every little thing. You will have much more fun that way and you will leave your dates with a better impression of you.
Like Deena said, I think you should continue to see other people b/c it sounds like right now you are focusing way too much mental energy on this one guy, who you barely know.
Again, thanks all!