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Don't know what else to do
| Wed, 03-17-2004 - 9:55pm |
I have been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years now. We are bothe young and at that point in college where we have to declare majors and decide what we are doing once and for all. I know what i want but he doesnt. He thinks that he is not smart enough and that is completely untrue. His dad is a judge and his mom a psycologist, so he feels pressured. Those proffesions dont interest him. He feels he is not smart enough to be anything great b/c he gets C's and b's in school. However he works and goes to school full time, and no oe under those conditions would do well. i explained this to him but he still feels stupid. He reallly is smart but i dunno how to make him seethis. i dont know what to say to make him feel good, and i really want to help him. can u help me find the right things to say to improve his self esteem?>

But for what it's worth... my new friend has a PhD in physics, and he tells me that all though school he was in danger of being held back a year.
Guys don't develop at the same pace women do.
But they do develop(most of them at least).
Don't worry if his pace is not the same as yours.
Time will tell.