I like him but he is my ex's brother...

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Registered: 09-02-2003
I like him but he is my ex's brother...
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Sun, 03-21-2004 - 3:28pm
A little backround...

His brother and I broke up in September of '03, we dated for 2 years breaking up once after a year and half, but got back tgether until he cheated on me and I broke things off in September.

I have been hanging out with his brother since January and we have gotten pretty close, so close that we hang out all the time and flirt alot. Untill now the only thing past flirting that has happened is a good night sort of kiss (on the cheek), which actually happened last night. His friends say that we should date each other but I find it a little weird to date your ex boyfriend's younger brother. I know that the feeling we share is mutual, but I just don't know if it would be a good idea to persue a more than friends realationship with him. But I'm caught up in that "What would people say/think if we did date" mode while he doesn't really care what they think.

I'm just really confused and need some advice...

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Registered: 03-27-2003
Sun, 03-21-2004 - 9:04pm
don't do it. really, don't.

the reasons are too many - ignore what's said and just don't.