I have 2 MAJOR problems
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| Sun, 03-21-2004 - 10:06pm |
1)On St. Patrick's Day I went to my favorite pub and met the most amazing guy. He walked me home and stayed over. We cuddled and kissed all night but nothing serious "happened." He was incredibly respectful and I really got the feeling there was something there, even though we had met in a bar. So the next morning before he left for work, we exchanged numbers, promised to see each other soon. He made me promise I would call him. I did friday night and he hasn't called back yet. I can't give up on this so I am calling again sometime this week for the last time. I need advice on what to say and if calling twice is incredibly pathetic or not.
2) a few months ago, I met a guy on a plane. He is much too old for me and I found him pretty dorky. He flirted incessantly and finally managed to get my IM screenname out of me. He IM's me every once in a while- sometimes I ignor him and sometimes I politely but aloofly respond. Well tonight I decided to be polite and he asked me out to dinner on friday night. I don't want to go but I am incapable of turning someone down. I know I have made my bed, but I could really use some advice on how to get through the date.
thanks,
buggie

Guy number two - make up an excuse and block his IM's.
Guy number 2 - You ARE capable of turning someone down. "No, thank you." "I'm flattered but I don't think that's a good idea." Simple, to the point, and polite.
As to Guy #2, the next time he emails or IMs, why not politely tell him you're sorry but you're not interested? If he continues to contact you, then you should block his name.