Well get this guy

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Registered: 03-11-2004
Well get this guy
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Sun, 03-21-2004 - 10:37pm
Have been out with "J" four times and he seemed like a really nice guy. Just normal, good head on his shoulders, etc. Last night I went over to watch movies at his place and we had a really nice talk, some kissing, etc. but nothing serious. We both agreed we should stop before things got out of hand since we haven't been dating long and take it slow. Also, we've never had that exclusive talk as it's too soon. We've both talked in general terms that we feel we're both looking for something real, not players, etc. So tonight he asked me over again about seven or so and finish the movie we were watching (Lord of the rings 2...so long we didn't finish before we both got tired). Sooo, I go over there, we finish it and watch another movie. That finished around 10 and said I should be going. While we are finishing conversation I'm getting my shoes on, etc. He picks up his laptop and logs in..it pops up that he's got a couple yahoo personal messages. He logs on to yahoo personals and begins surfing his messages RIGHT IN FRONT OF ME!!! What's up with that..is that not rude?
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Registered: 03-27-2003
Sun, 03-21-2004 - 10:56pm
rude? that's not rude.

that's a dealbreaker.

sheesh!

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Registered: 03-15-2004
Mon, 03-22-2004 - 6:32am
I think that is very rude. I also think that going over to his place for your "dates" might not have been the best idea - sounds like he has to make little effort to see you/plan a date and it is very early in the relationship. That doesn't excuse his behavior but it sounds like he is taking you for granted.

sorry this happened.

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Registered: 03-31-2003
Mon, 03-22-2004 - 10:25am
eeeewwwww!! That was totally rude and unnecessary. It's the equivalent of calling up another girl while you are there and making a date with her. Drop this no-class act, pronto. Next!
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Registered: 03-04-2004
Mon, 03-22-2004 - 10:56pm
I agree - dealbreaker. Move on!