update to establishing exclusivity
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update to establishing exclusivity
| Wed, 03-24-2004 - 8:08am |
Well we had the talk last night and we broke up. Not the outcome I was hoping for but no more uncertainty. He said he was relieved that he had wanted to bring it up for awhile and that he didn't think I was the one. I had tried to brace myself for the worst but it seemed so inconceivable. For the life of me, I do not understand how someone can be so attentive and affectionate if they are not feeling any sparks? (not just a sexual nature) He is looking for life time committment so why waste time with me? What if I hadn't brought it up? He has been making future pans with me and getting involved in my life. Why do this if you were looking for a way out? Don't guys usually pull away when they lose interest? This one was getting more involved.
Ok...I'm done now. That would be the pain that was talking.

At least you know now, and can move on to someone who's better for you. =)
Oh, I'm sorry to hear that but if you hadn't brought it up, it just would have delayed the inevitable and you would have spent more time with someone who wasn't on the same page with you.
I think he felt safe saying and doing the things he did because he thought it was clear to you from the beginning that this wasn't serious.
Sheri
Take care.