am i a bitch for this?
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am i a bitch for this?
| Fri, 03-26-2004 - 5:50am |
ok, i was dating my bf for nearly a year. things were starting to go downhill, then i started to fall for my best guy frend. my best guy frend also started falling for me. we both decided to break this to our current significant others. his current gf was upset, but she moved on rather quickly cuz they hadnt been going out long. my bf however didn't take it well at all. i broke his heart.... but he was not the way i wanted my relationship to be..... if that makes any sense. i found out that my ex has been real depressed, and he cried the nite i broke it off with him..... i feel like such a bitch. am i one? or am i overreacting?

Did you tell your ex about the new guy? If so, you really shouldn't have. Breaking up with him really should be about your relationship with him and what's wrong with it - not about some new guy you want to date. If you tell someone you're leaving them for someone else, it just makes them feel like you have been staying with them until the next guy comes along, so you won't have to be alone, and no one wants to feel like that.