Should I call him?!
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Should I call him?!
| Fri, 03-26-2004 - 9:01am |
So my guy and I broke up last Sunday. A different guy friend came over last night (just for a Hi and How Are You chat) and asked me if I’ve called whatsisname since the breakup? Well, no, it hadn’t even occurred to me to do that, but now it has!
I know I probably shouldn’t but the thought is implanted. I told him that he could call me anytime he needed someone to talk to, but he didn't say anything about me contacting him, so I feel like he doesn't want to hear from me at all. Should I follow my instincts and keep totally quiet or what? I don't want to risk the humiliation of realising he's hating having to talk to or email me.

Why on earth WOULD you call him?
It's hard to move on with the past still in your life. If you want for both of you to have a chance to regroup and adjust to single life with as little baggage as possible, you'll have to be disciplined enough to NOT call for awhile. Maybe someday it'll be ok to call him, but I don't think now is the time.
I left a door open. It's up to him to use it. I'm dealing with enough emotional upset as it is.