why cant i be happy?
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why cant i be happy?
| Sat, 03-27-2004 - 9:34pm |
ok heres my story. I have 2 daughters ages 3 and 6.I was with my youngest daughters father for about 4 years untill jan 12 2004 when i met scott.I lost feelings for art (the father) a while ago and i had been checking out other guys.Then one night i got a call from scott while i was at work. He asked me out on a date.It had to be the best day in my life. Well about 2 days after i met scott i kicked art out.I fell really hard for scott. He did like to drink though almost every night. He isnt a violent person so i never really worried about it. Well about 2 weeks ago he got mad because i wouldnt go to a party so he left me. Then i got thinking about how financialy my life was better with art so i took him back. Now 2 weeks later i run into scott. I fell for him all over again. I know with everything i love that i dont love art anymore. My feelings have not changed since hes been back. Im not sexually attracted to him at all. I find myself thinking about scott all the time as you can see. He does want me back but i dont know what to do. I dont want to hurt art again but i know i want to be with scott.Ive been seeing him at my work the past few nights and i get so happy when hes around. Please i really need some advice here.

Think about it - if not for yourself then for their best interests.
You've got to raise the bar!! What kind of standard is that, 'he isn't a violent person'????! And a man leaves because you don't want to go to a PARTY?
You need to work on yourself...focus on your children, grow up for them, grow up with them. The man thing will come together for you when you are ready.