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| Mon, 03-29-2004 - 8:54pm |
this is the first time i have ever posted a message so i apologize in advance if i mess up. first i need creative suggestions from real people on how they got through breaking up with someone after being together for four years. this is no normal man. i truly thought that he was the one. this summer i got extremely sick, had a liver transplant and had to learn how to do everything including walking again and he stayed with me through all of it only to now tell me (when i asked if he would ever marry me) that he wasn't sure he wanted to be with me any more. i'm feeling overwhelmed by everything that has happened to me. he was who helped cope with the hard times. most of my friends have abandoned me because they are scared to be around me because of my illness for some reason. i really need some ideas on how to make it through this.

there are some people who come along into our lives who are there for a purpose - and then to fade away.
that's what he was for you. he helped you and that was his purpose. he is not strong enough to handle your strength so you must let him go and become more philosophical about this.
he did not reject you. he rejected having to be strong.
now, you are the strong one. you are healing and have a will and a backbone and you will be just fine. now is your time to revamp your life. to use this as a learning experience.
your heart might be broken or disappointed, but you also have had a learning experience of enormous proportions. use these lessons for your soul.
you did nothing wrong, it was him. his expiration date arrived... that's how i'm looking at it.
right now i want you to look fear in the face and give it the finger - ok?
I am so glad your transplant was successful and I wish you the best of luck and continued good health!
cloey