New single girl needs advice!

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Registered: 05-09-2003
New single girl needs advice!
Tue, 03-30-2004 - 2:59pm
Hi!!

I psted sooo many times about my ex and the break up... Well, now im in a new phase of my life. My therapist gave me some pills to calm down, and they make me feel better. Also i started seeing all this little things about my ex that i hated, and realized (truly) that he wasnt meant for me. Its like i took a heavy bag off my back, Im feeling happier, free, like a 22 year old girl (i am that age, but lately i felt older).

Well, this past friday i went to a bar after job with a friend, i spotted a really nice looking guy, and said that to my friend but nothing happen. The, i saw him again and he came over and starting chatting with me, about collegue., our jobs, what were we doing there,ect. We kissed a little (is that a bad sign for a guy). Then he said the he wanted to see me again, of course if i wanted to. I say it could be, and he kept asking which day i prefer, if i went out on week days, etc,etc. I told him i prefer thursday or maybe friday, and he asked for my phone (nothing to write it) and said hell call me on wed to arrange a date on thursday. Then he ask my msn (its very hard to remember). I told him i was leaving and he said that he had a really great time with me.

Next day he had included me on his msn list! :-D And yesterday we chatted a little, he said he was really busy right now but hell email me these days to arrange our date (and repeated of course if u want to).

Its that good or bad??

I know its a silly question, but i never really dated, my first date turned out to be my ex of almost 4 years, so im not use to this. I really liked this guy and he made me laugh a lot, and i dont want to screw it and i dont wan to get to excited either. Its a great step for me, to feel attraction to a guy that isnt my ex and not think about him anymore.

please, give me some points, advice, whatever to get into the dating life ok!!!

Thanks, Bel.