His roommate wants my number...
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His roommate wants my number...
| Wed, 03-31-2004 - 9:19pm |
So I work with this guy (Joe), we went out once - had a blast, hung out one other time for a while, and we seem to be getting to know each other and become friends. I'm in no hurry for it to go anywhere real fast since we work together. He gets really stressed out at work and maybe thats why hes been acting quite remote lately. He seems to be really moody - sometimes he's really cool, sometimes he makes me feel as if I'm annoying him - he gets very grouchy. We dont work directly together - we're on a large campus, in different departments in different buildings. Some days I dont see him at all. But the current thing is this: we worked together this past weekend and had lunch together - he struck me as very negative, arguing w/ a few different friends of his on the phone (one of which was his roommate Bob), he just doesn't seem real happy but he's still pretty nice to me usually. I had a little get together the same night for my birthday and he showed up w/ a couple friends. He was very unsociable - we barely spoke, he and his friends didnt even hang out with me and my friends - they went into a different room. We played a game of pool but I got the impression he didnt even care to be there (so why did he even show up??) My friends and I left for another club (Joe et al. went somewhere else) and he told me that his roommate/best friend (Bob) would be at the club I was headed for (I'd met Bob once before). Bob and I wound up hanging out for most of the night, he kept saying he was really happy he'd found me and that he'd been watching out for me since he'd arrived. Very flirty! He had never heard of the band that was playing, and gave me the impression he showed up because Joe had told him I'd be there. At the end of the night he gave me a big hug and said "I'm gonna get your number from Joe if thats ok with you" I said sure. Being my birthday I was a bit drunk and didnt think much about it - I should have just given him my number myself. Well at work Monday, I sent Joe an email that was work related and then asked if he had fun Saturday, where'd he go, etc. amd ,emtiopned I'd found Bob at the club. He responded to the work question in very few words and ignored the rest. We haven't spoken since Saturday. And Bob hasnt called yet. I cant help but wonder why Bob hadn't come to the first bar with Joe and instead went to the 2nd club... they had been arguing on the phone earlier... I'm not sure what to make of this situation - I really want to talk to Joe and ask if everythings ok. I seriously doubt hes angry about Bob and I hanging out - its quite clear theres nothing going on between us (Joe and I), in fact I suspect hes seeing someone (I could be wrong). Regardless I want be friends with him! Nothing ever happened between us - not even a kiss. Why is he ignoring me? Any idea how I should handle this? Part of me wants to just step back and see what happens but I hate this feeling of not knowing whats up... Plus I actually liked Bob a lot - and I hope to hear from him but dont even know if he ever got my number. From his actions on Sat night at the club, I think he wants to see me again too. Plus we were discussing a festival in June that he really wants to go to and I told him he should come with me and my friends. Should I ask Joe if Bob asked for my number? (probably not!)Thanks for any input!

ok first
please dont write stories : or just indicate that u r typing a story and its long
second : he is not work cause u barely saw him b4 and will barely see him again..not like he is working in the same office
third : he is being cold either cause he is a socail retard or he is playing hard to get
if second ..he is playing it to hard to get ..u can test him by actaully hanging out with his friend.
if u like his friend more after u hang out and dont feel any thing for the guy ..just let him fade away ..u r not offically together
otherwise just dump both and start fresh ..since u are a gal ..ull find some one easily ..nice i dont gurantte thats where u have to find out