confused

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Registered: 04-02-2004
confused
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Fri, 04-02-2004 - 12:06pm
i met a guy through online a few months ago and when we met in person, i feel as if we clicked immediately. i'm interested in getting to know him better, but we've only hung out a few times. he never calls me, and the only times he agrees to hang out are when i initiate. he says i'm his type and that he thinks i'm cute...and he's asked me if i want to have sex?! i barely know this guy...does he just want to get in my pants, or what?! what should i do...i actually like this guy...but i'm unsure of his intentions...any advice is appreciated!
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Registered: 03-26-2003
In reply to: clouds77
Fri, 04-02-2004 - 12:28pm

This is going to sound awful, but COME ON!!!

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Registered: 03-30-2004
In reply to: clouds77
Fri, 04-02-2004 - 12:33pm
I would not go any further than friendship with this guy for now. How long have you actually known this guy in person? It's totally different than being online. I met my boyfriend online almost three years ago, and we met in person about a year and half ago, and it's very different. Next time you two hang out, try and suggest that he call you or set up the next date. And make it something fun, not a place where he can try and get in your pants. If he's reluctant, or wants to go somewhere more private, then he probably just wants a piece of you with no intentions of anything real. Guys can be tricky like that. There are genuine ones though. The hard part is figuring out what kind of guy he is. Hope this helps a little.
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Registered: 11-25-2003
In reply to: clouds77
Fri, 04-02-2004 - 12:42pm
my advice is short and to the point... 1) DO NOT have sex with this guy! 2) try to get to know him and IF he calls it quits after he knows he's not getting any from you, then you'll know it was a good thing kept your pants on!