date a guy you don't want to marry?
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date a guy you don't want to marry?
| Fri, 04-02-2004 - 5:24pm |
If you've been with someone for 2 years and you can't see yourself marrying him eventually, yet you want to be married someday, should you stay with him or open up to other dating possibilities? Please let me know all opinions are welcome.

If you ant marriage eventually - and it's not in the next 5 years...keep dating him if you like the fun, sex, and companionship - because that is all dating is.
But at the point where you're wanting to seek a partner, start dating to find one - start at least 3 years prior to wanting to marry to ensure tha tyou don't rush into anything and live to regret it...then it is up to you to stop dating them, get over te loss, and move on.
Because you won't change what they want...giving them waht they want. If they don't want responsiblity, obliation, and commitment - nothing yo ugive or offer is going to change that. And so at some point for you to get with a partner that does want those things -you'll have to leave and incur the pain.
Unless, they find someone else that suits thier fancy better - in which case, just don't start up dating people you wouldn't consider marrying if you're the dumpee.
Erin
quickblade14@hotmail.com
There's no point in passing time with someone you don't want to end up with though in my eyes...