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| Fri, 04-02-2004 - 5:34pm |
I am a single mom. I haven't dated for about four years, I just started dating 3 months ago and I think I forgot how the dating rules and I am little confused and hard on myself. But I am trying my best. Could anyone help me with dating rules here please? eg.about phone calls, meeting eachothers friends,when is the right time to meet my kid,..........etc.
Thank you in advance:-)

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I'm not sure that there are "rules" per se, but I do have guidelines that work for me.
Thank you Again.
Rube.
Edited 4/3/2004 3:33 pm ET ET by carina1368
Yes, I would be concerned if you are always the one asking him out.
He only asked me questions the first dates and I mentioned to him why he is not asking and he said I am observing and I know you more than than you think, he said.
As I said we have been dating for a three months and we had 16 dates. And we are very compatble. He is looking in a relationship, marriage and child. That is what I am looking too.
Rube.
Well, observing is certainly another way to get to know someone.
I don't know if he likes me or my body? What am I going to do, could you help me what to do I feel bad what I did, but that is the only way to find out.
Rube.
Do the two of you have an agreement that you are dating exclusively?
Yes we are exclusive. He assured me I am the only woman he is dating and he wants keep dating. I had to believe him right? My question is how do I believe a man if he tells me exclusive and I don't even know what he is up to? Do you have any advice? and he told me he is been hurt from other woman in his life and he is not going to hurt my feeling and I belived him as a reason we became intimate(had sex). I turned off my profile while we were exchanging via e-mail(before we had first date because of different reason), and after we dated for a 2 months I asked him if everything is going ok between us and he said, great and happy, and I asked him to turn off his profile. And he came to my home to show me he is turning off and he had two profiles (dating, relationship) He just turned off one of them it was my mistake, I gave him wrong instraction how to used.
Well is it ok to ask him to delete our profiles down? And see what happens.
Thank you so much for your help.
Rube
So, he's lying to you about being exclusive.
Rube.
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