married and older man

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-03-2004
married and older man
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Sat, 04-03-2004 - 8:09am
i've bee seeing a married and older man for a year and a half now. i'm also married, but separated. we've broke it off three times, but he keeps coming back and i keep letting him. i love him even thought he's married and he keeps telling me he loves me. i know it's wrong to go with a married man. does anyone have any advice??
iVillage Member
Registered: 10-12-2003
Sat, 04-03-2004 - 10:10am
You may want to check out the Affairs board b/c most folks here don't believe in breaking the vows of marriage.

But I would point you to your own self-reference--"Tims Other Woman" which says to me you'll never be his first. (And even if you were, there'd be another.)

 

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-15-2004
Sat, 04-03-2004 - 10:20am
Yes - go to the affairs boards - married people do not date so I don't think your post belongs here. I hope you both divorce your spouses, marry each other and then torture each other with the affairs you will both inevitably have. "I know it's wrong but . .. " - oh, please.