a new guy and what he means by this..
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| Mon, 04-05-2004 - 3:48am |
I am having a hard time deciding what to do or say to this man I am having sex with, because I don't know how he feels, and I don't want to jump to conclusions by asking him.
If you are having sex with someone, and they say and do these things, what would be your take on them???
1)Said he really looks forward to seeing me on this certain day that we would see each other(before we even started to have sex)
2)Asked what was up with me and my ex
3)Said "I bet YOU want to have babies soon" as he puts his hand on my arm(in front of others)
4)I had to get a tooth pulled awhile ago, and he asked why I didn't go on his dental plan
5)when I said evenings are best for me when we were first hooking up, he says in a sarcastic but light tone "Why, so you can spend the day with your other boyfriend?"
6)Grabbed my hand and held it(in public)
7)Kisses me sooo much during sex, looks into my eyes and just keeps kissing me
8)I had to leave his place early one night, and when I said I had to go, he pulled me tighter and told me to wait until the morning(at this point we were falling asleep)
9)Cuddles alot after sex
10)Mentions little things about the future, like-taking me to this island he goes to,taking me on a date sometime when he can get away from his business; asked "what are you going to wear on the back of my bike if you sell me your leather jacket?"
Hopefully someone can give me some insight...I feel like a kid again wondering what the boy is thinking!

I think you are treating yourself shabbily by letting this man inside your body without any commitment when you so obviously want one with him. Have the conversation and be prepared to walk if he is not into you enough to be committed to you (or stop having sex)
and please use excellent birth control since he is probably sleeping with others right now and probably has slept with others in the recent past.
Edited 4/5/2004 8:56 am ET ET by deena37