should I end my 2 year infatuation?
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should I end my 2 year infatuation?
| Mon, 04-05-2004 - 5:52am |
I desperately need a guy's feedback on this issue (a woman's too) :
I've been head over heels for this guy at my college for the past 2 years now and I still can't get over him. It started out by him showing interest in me by doing all the things guys do to get a girl's attention. I shut the door on this guy from the very beginning because of past failed relationships and later as I began to grow fond of him he started playing hard to get. We've flirted a lot in the past but it never got to the point where either of us could make a move. He's had my number for a while now but has never bothered to call me. Normally, I would tell myself that this guy isn't interested. However, everytime I talk to him he always shows bodily gestures of attraction. For example, licking his lips, looking at "other" body parts while we're talking. I'm totally confused by this guy. Let me know what you think about this. thanks!
I've been head over heels for this guy at my college for the past 2 years now and I still can't get over him. It started out by him showing interest in me by doing all the things guys do to get a girl's attention. I shut the door on this guy from the very beginning because of past failed relationships and later as I began to grow fond of him he started playing hard to get. We've flirted a lot in the past but it never got to the point where either of us could make a move. He's had my number for a while now but has never bothered to call me. Normally, I would tell myself that this guy isn't interested. However, everytime I talk to him he always shows bodily gestures of attraction. For example, licking his lips, looking at "other" body parts while we're talking. I'm totally confused by this guy. Let me know what you think about this. thanks!

Think of it this way - in two years - what does he know of your life- does he know about your family, or friends, or what is going on - when he sees you does he remember and ask? If you told him your mother was under the weather would he ask how she was doing the next time you saw him? Does he share with you personal things about his life and seek your advice?
He IS attracted to you - no confusion there - he sees you as a sexy woman and he likes your figure and he thinks about getting you in bed - a man who wanted to court a lady would restrain himself from leering no matter how attracted he was because he would want his chosen to feel respected and . . .. like a lady. It is simple - he wants to have sex with you, if you offered that he would jump at the chance, but since he has your number and can't even bother to call, he is not into you as far as a relationship.
Another wonderful feaure I'd like to bring to your attention is the "report a violation button".
Cheers