Shall I make the first move?
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Shall I make the first move?
| Fri, 05-21-2004 - 12:40pm |
I have just broken up with my bf, who I have been with for about 4 years.During the process of breaking up, I met this guy, with whom we became amazingly good friends. We talked and I told him about my problems and he supported me in my breakup with my bf.Now we have been friends for about 6 months, but sometimes I feel the attraction between us could be taken to another level.I really think we can hit it off, because we have an amazing chemistry between us.We talk about absolutely anything, inclusing sex (for God's sake we know each other's favourite positions!), and we feel extremly comfortable with one another. I even , by mistake,read a message by his brother to him asking him, if we had both "been intimate" yet an advising him not to since I was still with my bf then. To cut a long story short, I really want to take this to the next level.Shall I attempt to make the first move? And what should I do? Im also sort of intimidated of making the first move and then find out that I might have misread his signals...how would I know? Any help would be very appreciated!

Thank you for your reply :) Yes, I would rather wait for him to make the first move. I mean, if men really prefer it that way. The thing is he might be a bit intimidated because I had just broken up and doesnt want to be the re-bound bf. And he is somewhat a bit shy, too. Should I at least send out signals that I am interested? If yes, any suggestions?