What should I do?

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Registered: 05-22-2004
What should I do?
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Sat, 05-22-2004 - 3:25am
Okay... here goes...

I live in Houston, Texas and I met this SUPER guy last week. I was looking into buying a new vehicle and went to a dealership to check out some cars. The salesperson who came to help me was very nice and we seemed to click. While on our test drives, we chatted about ourselves and our interests. Although I did not purchase a car that day, he asked me out for a date. We met for drinks and live music later on that evening. I really had a super time and we shared a lot of common interests and goals. Before our date was over, he asked me if he could see me again the following night. I wasn't doing anything, so I said okay. The following night we saw a movie and had some more conversation. When we met, he was only visiting Houston until Saturday and then he was going back to Austin. Austin is only 2 hrs away. He expressed to me that he had a job offer in Houston and was thinking of moving down here in the next couple of months. On Saturday, he called and left a message on my machine that he would call me this week, but I haven't heard from him. I'm really disappointed because he seemed to be really nice and we had a good connection. I have his number... should I call him?

Thanks!!

P.S.- Nothing physical happened on either of our dates and he did not bring up buying a car while we were talking.

Avatar for bratgirl2002
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Registered: 04-01-2003
Sat, 05-22-2004 - 5:52am
Give him a ring and see what happens.
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Sat, 05-22-2004 - 12:01pm
I don't think calling would do any harm, but just don't expect that it's going to do any good either. If he wanted to call you, he would have. Now, it's certainly *possible* that he lost your number or something else happened, but it's not very likely. Most likely he just changed his mind...or maybe he's involved with someone in Austin.

He may respond positively, but that may indicate he has only a moderate interest in you (if he had a very strong interest, he would have called).

Sheri

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Registered: 07-24-2003
Sat, 05-22-2004 - 4:35pm

Hello spasticangel! (remind me to ask how you came up with THAT name sometime!)