help - what should I think
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help - what should I think
| Sat, 05-22-2004 - 8:22pm |
here is my situation _ I have been dating this guy for about 2 months - things were going great - saw each other often - laugh all the time - great along great - we have even planned a weekend getaway in two weeks - the problem is - for the past week I havent spoken to him except for when I called last night (he hasent called me all week) - we had made plans to go out tonight - then he left me a phone message saying he had made other plans to go out with some friends tonight and was sorry to break our date (also added in "please dont take it personnaly) but too call him so we can go out tomarrow - what should I think????. we have never spoken about seeing each other exclusivly - I guess I may have made that up in my head (but he did make future plans to go away together) - should I just trust that he really is out with his friends (even though he has never mentioned any in the two months we have dated) or should I be broken hearted that he is out with another gal (even though he has every right to date others as we have never discussed being exclusive) - I just cant beleive that he would break our date to go out with another lady
any advise is welcome
thanks for your time
any advise is welcome
thanks for your time
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| Sun, 05-23-2004 - 2:38am |
Judging by what you are saying, I personally dont think he is seeing another girl. 1) he planned a getaway with you, thats not easy for a man to do unless he is seriously interested in you, 2) he didnt only break a date, but he asked you to call back and see if you can arrange something the other day. Ask him later, nicely and without making him feel that he is on trial, who the friends are. He never mentioned any of them, because you have only been seeing each other for two months.Maybe its time for you to ask rather than wait for him to share those information with you. Dont worry, just plan your getaway as you were going to anyway and Good luck
| Sun, 05-23-2004 - 10:09am |

Hello medic!
