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He can´t decide
| Sun, 05-23-2004 - 1:20pm |
Hello!
My best friend he is also my boyfriend, and we love each other. I´m 19 and he´s 35. He has another girlfriend, with a small child from him.He says, according to him, that he loves me way way more than her and he wants to marry me. He doesn´t sleep with her since 2 years, because of the baby the mom gets no lust. Why won´t he decide, even though he loves me more? Will he eventually? How long should I accept this situation? Please tell me an answer! Thanks
My best friend he is also my boyfriend, and we love each other. I´m 19 and he´s 35. He has another girlfriend, with a small child from him.He says, according to him, that he loves me way way more than her and he wants to marry me. He doesn´t sleep with her since 2 years, because of the baby the mom gets no lust. Why won´t he decide, even though he loves me more? Will he eventually? How long should I accept this situation? Please tell me an answer! Thanks

The answer to your question is very simple. Your b/f is also the father of another woman's child. And whether or not all his lust is in your direction, the man has a responsibility for the baby he created with his earlier girlfriend!
Ask yourself this...if the man got YOU pregnant...would you like to be in a similar situation? And before you say...HE WOULD NEVER LEAVE ME...consider the fact that he could find someone else...and "fall out of lust" with you too?
Pianoguy
Something else comes to mind, he has a child with a woman he didnt want to marry, which is somewhat irresponsible, right? You have way better opportunities out there!
As for whether you should marry him, um, NO. He's a cheater. Nuff said.
Sheri