WHAT IS WRONG WITH ME THEN??
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| Wed, 05-26-2004 - 8:43pm |
Even married guys have told me they like me and that how come Im not married or even have a boyfriend, they tell it to my face, coworkers always flattered me at work, There is a currennt single guy at work, that always flatters me and it seems he likes me but I dont know if he is just like men, that flatters without any interested or he really likes me but dont dare to tell it to my face, just looks at me, always, says pretty things to me.
At work, I see that many men always look at me, they find me attractive, but that is it.
Do I intimidate man just because the way I am?
Today at work a married coworker even told me in private of course: "You see, Im happily married, I love my wife and we have a good relationship, I will never get involved with another woman, but you know... I like you as a woman, You are a pretty lady, approachable, easy going, you get along with everyone. How come you dont have a boyfriend at this moment"
Others have told me similar things.
So what is wrong with me, that It seems men like me, but I dont have a boyfriend, not even a male friend to go out with, if people say Im a nice lady, good person, etc.

As an aside, coworkers may be cautious about dating a fellow coworker perhaps?
Wendie
I know that if someone comes along great, but how come if for other male I found them attractive, nice person, etc and that is the way I am, why I seems to scare them away. Just a thought.
I mean what I am now more confused than before is how come Im more attractive to married man than to single guys. I appeal more to married man than to single guys, I mean they like me, not that I like them of course, of course im not interested in married guys at all, but it seems that is the only type of guys they got attracted to me. Why a single guy cannot be attractive to me and just married guys?
There is a guy at work who is married and believe me he told me last week, up front and honestly, that he likes me. He told me that he is happy in his marriage, he loves his wife, but for some reason he likes me, he feel attracted to me, because of the way I am: natural, special, pretty, sincere.
Why a single guy dont say those words to me, I mean single guys I know. Why they are not attracted to me?