Childish x with a motive?

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Registered: 05-17-2004
Childish x with a motive?
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Wed, 05-26-2004 - 11:57pm
For those of you who dont know. I broke up with my x of 8 months, 3 months ago. I caught her with another guy. I called her cell, and she didnt answer nor return my call. That told me, that i was right. She couldnt even deny or explain who this guy was.

She has been hanging around with a supposedly x-good friend of mine at the gym, trying to make me jelous?I seen it first hand tonite. She was in the hallway talking to him etc... . She was talking and flirting with him. Before she left, she went up to him and had a little chit chat, and she left. I dont know if this was the guy, i caught her with, since i couldnt really see his face. He was driving her car, with her in the passenger seat

I ignored her the whole time. She was hanging around my vicinity for the whole hour. I dont know why? I wasnt going to talk to her. She was looking at me from time to time, and one time, she got real close. I didnt budge. I held my ground and ignored her completely.

I honestly felt, she tried to get me to say something? She tried to make eye contact with me, but none from my end. This makes her look bad, because everyone in the gym knows we were together. Now she's seeing some other guy from the same gym, with me present. I just had a good time talking to other people and working out. I paid her no attention.

PROUD OF MYSELF

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Registered: 05-26-2004
Thu, 05-27-2004 - 10:57am
Are you not at a place yet where you can be civil and say "Hi" if you see her out someplace or do you just not desire to acknowledge her? Im not sure what her game is....its odd, thats for sure. If you feel that you dont even want to see her, maybe you should change your workout time?
Lilypie Baby Days

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Registered: 07-24-2003
Thu, 05-27-2004 - 2:09pm

Hello djrazr!

 
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Registered: 05-17-2004
Thu, 05-27-2004 - 8:47pm
Its kinda hard to change workout times when i work there in the evenings

Why should i give in and be polite to her, when she disrespected me, by cheating on me? I have no respect for a cheater, so why should i acknowledge her existence? That would be giving in, and showing that i want her back by re-establishing contact. I dont want that

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Registered: 07-24-2003
Thu, 05-27-2004 - 9:15pm
I'm sorry but I don't think just saying "Hello" indicates anything other than just that... Hello. It doesn't mean you want her back, it doesn't mean you want to sleep with her, it isn't a marriage proposal... just a simple Hello...