How do I get him to ask me out?
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How do I get him to ask me out?
| Thu, 05-27-2004 - 11:24am |
Hello,
I met the nicest guy. He ansered an ad online to buy my car. He was just a super sweet guy. He bought my car last Dec. However over these past months, we had difficulites signing the Title over. He happens to work in the same building as my mother. She found out that his ex wife really hurt him bad, but he has a reputation of just being a wonderful friend and overall person. As part of my "messing up" the title transition, I invited him over for dinner. He readily accepted. He stayed about three hours. We talked a lot and found we were both "Reality TV Buffs". He hugged me and kissed me on the cheek good-bye. The next morning I had an email waiting for me telling me he had a great time. We then proceeded to send playful emails to one another. Being that he is so sweet and shy, I was suprised to see he had a playful side. He admitted that he really wanted to kiss me. I asked him why he didn't.....yadda yadda yadda. Anyway, I invited him over to watch a season finale' of one of our mutual favorite shows. I had messed up on the "title" yet again. I apologized. He said that I just owe him a kiss. So I said sure. Both of us sat there about two hours, being shy as heck. Finally I handed him over the fixed version of the title, and asked him what do I owe him. He then leaned over an kissed me......He didn't want to leave. I totally could tell. He gave me the sweetest kiss and hug good-bye. He didn't email me right away like he had done before. Eventually he did email me and explained that I have to type of a Bill of Sale for the car. I invited him over the following week. Prior to that, I wrote him in teasing jest asking him...What does a girl have to do to get you to ask her out? He said we would discuss it when he came over to pick up the bill of sale. He came over and we kissed for about two hours. Nothing more. It was a lot of fun. As he left, he said that he will be back in town on Mon. He would like me to email him tues, tell him what my schedule is. Then he said he may want to stop by and talk about how sexy I am. However he didn't as me out! Why? I want him to take my out? What do I do?
I met the nicest guy. He ansered an ad online to buy my car. He was just a super sweet guy. He bought my car last Dec. However over these past months, we had difficulites signing the Title over. He happens to work in the same building as my mother. She found out that his ex wife really hurt him bad, but he has a reputation of just being a wonderful friend and overall person. As part of my "messing up" the title transition, I invited him over for dinner. He readily accepted. He stayed about three hours. We talked a lot and found we were both "Reality TV Buffs". He hugged me and kissed me on the cheek good-bye. The next morning I had an email waiting for me telling me he had a great time. We then proceeded to send playful emails to one another. Being that he is so sweet and shy, I was suprised to see he had a playful side. He admitted that he really wanted to kiss me. I asked him why he didn't.....yadda yadda yadda. Anyway, I invited him over to watch a season finale' of one of our mutual favorite shows. I had messed up on the "title" yet again. I apologized. He said that I just owe him a kiss. So I said sure. Both of us sat there about two hours, being shy as heck. Finally I handed him over the fixed version of the title, and asked him what do I owe him. He then leaned over an kissed me......He didn't want to leave. I totally could tell. He gave me the sweetest kiss and hug good-bye. He didn't email me right away like he had done before. Eventually he did email me and explained that I have to type of a Bill of Sale for the car. I invited him over the following week. Prior to that, I wrote him in teasing jest asking him...What does a girl have to do to get you to ask her out? He said we would discuss it when he came over to pick up the bill of sale. He came over and we kissed for about two hours. Nothing more. It was a lot of fun. As he left, he said that he will be back in town on Mon. He would like me to email him tues, tell him what my schedule is. Then he said he may want to stop by and talk about how sexy I am. However he didn't as me out! Why? I want him to take my out? What do I do?
Thanks for any advice.
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| Thu, 05-27-2004 - 11:34am |
How long has it been since his divorce? It could be possible that he's still not over his ex-wife, or at least the issues of being hurt by her, and so he is taking things very slow and getting to know you as more of a friend before really pursuing anything. If he hasn't been divorced very long (at least a year), you might want to back off pursuing this one. If the divorce was ugly and he got hurt he probably has a lot of issues to deal with and won't really be able to commit himself to any kind of relationship until he does. However, if its been awhile since the divorce and you really want to pursue something with him, then why don't you ask him out to do something more as "friends" so there's less pressure on him. Maybe ask him to go to a movie you've been wanting to see or something equally as low key.
| Thu, 05-27-2004 - 11:53am |
Take things slow, let him pursue you. I know you want to go out on date with him, but just relax. In due time he will.
