First date, sort of??

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Registered: 03-23-2004
First date, sort of??
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Fri, 06-04-2004 - 1:26pm
Hello,

I haven't dated much since my divorce, and now I'm in kind of an odd situation.

I've known this man for about a year. See him weekly at an afterwork activity. We work for the same company, but in different buildings. Any time we've gone out (maybe once a month), with the group, he usually buys me dinner, often buys me drinks during the activity. Lately, things are moving more - we're having our technical first date tomorrow (we're having dinner with friends of his - a couple) and already have plans for the weekend in a couple of weeks.

Last time we went to dinner with the group, when we were saying goodbye, we kissed.

I'm not sure at what stage I should consider this. I don't want things to move too fast, because I've been hurt before, but it doesn't seem like we are at the normal "first-date" stage.
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Registered: 05-26-2004
Fri, 06-04-2004 - 1:40pm
I would call it just starting to date.
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Registered: 07-24-2003
Fri, 06-04-2004 - 8:00pm
Hello darcyann!