My friends x is coming on too me?

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Registered: 05-21-2004
My friends x is coming on too me?
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Sat, 06-05-2004 - 2:48pm


I know this guy at the gym. He dumped his girl bout 3 month ago. Just recently she started coming on to me. There has been many time where me, her and her x were in the gym at the same time. She keeps flirting with me right in front of him etc.. he doesnt do any thing. he says what up to me, and nothing to her. i noticed he ignores her. all he says to me is whats up. i dont understand how they can both see eachother at the same time in the gym. i have not said anything to her about their breakup.

i just want to know if she's up to no good. is she gonna use me?

just last weekend i took her for a ride on my harley. she met some of my other friends who are also friends of her x. they all know him and her were together. this is just sounding funny to me. she mentioned that she likes sportbikes more than harleys. her x boyfriend has a sportbike

now her x has his life together. he has a good job with 3 cars and a sportbike. he has his own place, and many women want him. He has the players qualities. he's one of those tall, dark handsome guys and well built and is going to compete for the mens fitness/health covermodel guy. Im not that good looking of a guy and i still live with my parents. he's 28, she's 26 and im 26

they were together for a year, and they looked good together. he treated her well till he dumped her. Just wondering why she would actually settle for a guy who's not up to par with her x?

is she tryin to use me?

is she serious bout me?





Edited 6/5/2004 2:54 pm ET ET by alpha_male

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Sat, 06-05-2004 - 3:32pm
Hello alpha_male!

 
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Sun, 06-06-2004 - 2:00am
bump
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Sun, 06-06-2004 - 8:43am
Is she talking and flirting with you when hes NOT around?
Lilypie Baby Days

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Sun, 06-06-2004 - 11:14am
hmmm... I wonder if that means you agreed or disagreed with me...? ;-)

 
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Sun, 06-06-2004 - 12:44pm
Yes she does but not as much as when he is around. The x has alot of friends that work out at the gym, and they all know that they were together for a while. the x's friends see what she is doing and i know they tell him, and thats probably what she wants

for example, the bike ride on my harley. some of his friends were with us and they seen me and her were together. i know the friends told the x about it

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Registered: 07-24-2003
Sun, 06-06-2004 - 12:51pm
I think you are playing second here... it sounds like a well planned plot to regain his interest to me...