can i still get him?
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can i still get him?
| Sun, 06-06-2004 - 10:28pm |
I recently broke up with my boyfriend over some major issues, but also in the back of my mind I have been hoping that this guy I had a college class with would still be interested in me. I was drawn to him because he was so nice to me and liked me all semester. We discovered he is friends with childhood friends of mine. His sister dances professionally for a football team and my sister dances professionally for a hockey team. We also discovered at the end of the semester that we go to the same church. It's weird seeing him there but awesome at the same time because I could still see him. Well now I am single and was going to casually bring up the subject to him this morning when I saw him. It all seemed great until... I saw him walk in with a girl. They looked so happy and I left crying because I couldn't believe I went through this breakup only to find I was too late for him to be interested in me.
So, what I am wanting to know is now that he's taken, is there anything I can do? Should I still try to be friends with him... and... her, or should I just wait like he did for me all semester? I want him to know I'm single but I don't know how to tell him now with a girl in the way. I don't blame him for accepting I was taken and moving on. I don't want to hurt anyone but I also want him to reconsider.
I just don't think I should give up... we have weird things in common that have led me to believe I should give him a chance.
So, what I am wanting to know is now that he's taken, is there anything I can do? Should I still try to be friends with him... and... her, or should I just wait like he did for me all semester? I want him to know I'm single but I don't know how to tell him now with a girl in the way. I don't blame him for accepting I was taken and moving on. I don't want to hurt anyone but I also want him to reconsider.
I just don't think I should give up... we have weird things in common that have led me to believe I should give him a chance.

Dont be sad. If things are meant to be then they are meant to be.
But I want to be friends no matter what happens.