mixed messages

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-06-2004
mixed messages
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Sun, 06-06-2004 - 11:58pm
good evening all.

i went out on a second date with quite the attractive woman. good looking, intelligent and fun. so we were at a outdoor venue with a play going on, located beautifully on a hill near the river. everyone on the grass on a nice crisp day. her friends were with us the whole time but it was cool to meet some new people, no problem. during the play, my date had no problem cozying up to me or laying her head on my chest or letting our bodies touch each other. I was into that as well, however subtle since her friends were nearby.

so, anyhow after the event was over i mentioned i'd like to do this again (going out). I lean in to give her a small kiss, but she gives me the cheek. not to be overly analytical, but i have been on the other side and if i give the cheek you can rest assured i'm not interested. so, i'm wondering was this person just enjoying testing the waters but in the small moments of truth isn't really interested?

anyhow, maybe the female mind can help me decode this before i wonder if i should swim upstream here and be confident.

thanks all

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-24-2003
In reply to: halpatrick
Mon, 06-07-2004 - 12:08am
Hello halpatrick!