I think I might have feelings for him
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| Mon, 06-07-2004 - 12:37am |
I was out last night and ran into someone who is friends with this 'player' I have been seeing (this is how I met the person I ran into). I seem to see him everywhere I go as we hang out at a lot of the same places. He is such a nice guy and someone I could definitely see myself getting along well with. We talked for most of the night and at the end of the night we were standing next to each other when a slow song came on. His friend nudged me and said his friend wanted to dance with me but he was too scared to ask, so I just smiled and grabbed his hand and we headed to the dance floor. It makes me think he might have feelings for me, as he was too nervous to ask me himself and if he did just care for me as a friend he would have had no problem grabbing my hand and leading me there himself. I know I definitely like this guy as a person and for some reason I've been thinking about him a lot lately. I'm not quite sure what my feelings towards him are, but the complicated part is that he is friends with this person I have been seeing. They've known each other their whole lives and I don't know what kind of mess I'm getting myself into! Do I pursue something with him and see where it leads?

If your 1st b/f admitted to being "a player" and there was no exclusivity---what's wrong with you dating this new person? The 4 years are over and you're a "free agent", right?
Of course...you run the risk of the 2 men eventually seeing each other and "comparing notes" about you! Can you handle this...along with the possibility that this new man could drop you in 4 months...as opposed to 4 years?
Make a list of the pros and cons before you decide.
Pianoguy