Dating question (NEWS)

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Registered: 12-01-2003
Dating question (NEWS)
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Mon, 06-07-2004 - 8:02pm
. The guy sent me another e-mail telling me that he will be in Boston (since he lives in New Hampshire) tomorow for his daughter graduation and suggested to see him tomorow. I think he's putting too much pressure on me. I already tell him that I wanted to talk by phone a few times before I see him. And anyways I'm thinking about it because of what I said on my previous post to this m board. And anyways didn't he said that he hasn't seen his kids for a year. Or maybe he's trying to fix what he said yesterday on the phone
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Mon, 06-07-2004 - 8:47pm
Meeting an online person straightaway is rather important...yes, he wants to know what you look like, but you do, too. The objective isn't a penpal, right? and the sooner you meet in person, the sooner you'll know. Sometimes you can hit it off really great online which creates a false sense of where things are headed, but absolutely nothing will happen in person.

If he's actually inviting you to go to the graduation and meet his kids, forget it. I haven't read your original post so I don't know the complete situation. I don't know where you get the feeling that there is too much pressure. If I were in his shoes, I would wonder if you had lied about your age or weight or otherwise had something to hide like a husband. People do lie.