Emotions! I need to learn to relax!

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Registered: 12-14-2003
Emotions! I need to learn to relax!
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Tue, 06-08-2004 - 6:46pm
Hi -- I posted, but then realized I wasn't really saying much of anything.

I'm just still a bit insecure from this past weekend with my boyfriend and needing to get myself to relax a bit and focus on other things while our relationship progresses naturally and slowly.


Edited 6/8/2004 7:05 pm ET ET by sadelle
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Wed, 06-09-2004 - 12:09am
You will be fine... relaxing is difficult sometimes... you have to make a concious effort. looooong walks and a hot bath do that for me... by the time I get through walking I am past relaxed, I'm exhausted!

 
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Wed, 06-09-2004 - 12:15am
Thanks, Terry! I appreciate it ... And I just posted a looooong post! :) He told me today I overanalyze too much. Which is absolutely true. I just wish I knew what to do. I want things to work and him to happy with the speed and relationship. But I want to be happy too....
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Wed, 06-09-2004 - 12:30am
Overanalyzing is a curse!! But, never fear... it's one that many people have... they like to take things apart, place all the pieces out on the table, examine each of them and then try to put it all back together again the way it was (or, in some cases a little different!) and then hioe it works... when, in reality, it was working to start with...