Unfair

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Registered: 06-14-2004
Unfair
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Mon, 06-14-2004 - 5:03am
My relationship ended 18months ago. He said that he didn't love me after 2 yrs together. I messaged him the other day to say no hard feelings, trying to gain a lil bit of closure. But instead he told me that he is now married and is expecting a baby. Im finding it hard that he has found someone to quickly and moved so fast. I keep asking myself why wasn't I good enough? My stomach churns at the thought of him being happy. I guess it's a bit of jealousy. As I pride myself on being caring, loving and loyal I can't understand why he ended up with everything I have always wanted? Is life really this unfair?
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Registered: 05-26-2004
In reply to: bee_1980
Wed, 06-16-2004 - 2:41pm
Of course that stings.....You two werent meant to be together, that obviously hurt you alot and now he is the possessor of things that you want for yourself.
Lilypie Baby Days

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Registered: 01-21-2004
In reply to: bee_1980
Wed, 06-16-2004 - 3:10pm
I have had someone break up with me, then three months later, get married to someone else. It happens. I don't know how some people can move this fast, but I guess they can. In fact, I've had several ex-bfs who married quickly after our break-up. Its possible that these men were cheating on me during the time we were dating. Which of course, is dishonest. In the end, though, I am glad I am not married to any of those guys. Looking back now, I can see that a lot of them had serious shortcomings anyway. They weren't the right guy for me.