He says no to sex?
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He says no to sex?
| Wed, 08-25-2004 - 10:54am |
I have been dating this really great guy for a little over a month now. We both work two jobs, so we usually meet up at night. He is sometimes selfish in the fact that he'll hang out with his friends and then call me. Which bothers me, but he is working on it. I get the feeling that he really likes me, but I am so nervous about losing him. I have started to wonder if maybe our relationship is just based on sex. So last night I asked him.
Now he is somewhat of a religous guy, and I LOVE that about him. He doesn't follow his religion like he should and we have talked about that. He said when he decides to commit himself to God, that it will change EVERYTHING about his life.
Well last night I asked the question. He said of course not. He really liked being with me and that he has made a decision that he wants to try and wait until he is married to start having sex again. He held me close all night without even a sexual touch. Well I really like this guy, so I am going to support any decision he makes, but I am kind of hurt by it. Now I keep wondering, maybe he is pushing me away. As I was getting ready to leave his place this morning he grabbed me and held me close. He smiled and said he would call me tonight. When I think of the way he looked at me before I left, it makes me feel good. And it makes me feel like I can trust in him. Has any else ever had this happen?
Now he is somewhat of a religous guy, and I LOVE that about him. He doesn't follow his religion like he should and we have talked about that. He said when he decides to commit himself to God, that it will change EVERYTHING about his life.
Well last night I asked the question. He said of course not. He really liked being with me and that he has made a decision that he wants to try and wait until he is married to start having sex again. He held me close all night without even a sexual touch. Well I really like this guy, so I am going to support any decision he makes, but I am kind of hurt by it. Now I keep wondering, maybe he is pushing me away. As I was getting ready to leave his place this morning he grabbed me and held me close. He smiled and said he would call me tonight. When I think of the way he looked at me before I left, it makes me feel good. And it makes me feel like I can trust in him. Has any else ever had this happen?
If I have offended anyone with religous references I am sorry, I just wanted you to get the full story.

Yes, I once dated an minister!
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