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i am confused
| Thu, 08-26-2004 - 1:35am |
Ok, my post is kind of like the one by butterflys. I met this guy in May and we hit it off really well. By the end of the night that we first met we were making out in my living room. After that we started hanging out pretty frequently and we became really close friends, making out all the while. 2 weeks after I met him I went to visit my family for vacation, and he flew to my hometown to meet my friends and family a few days before my vacation was over. When we got back, I freaked out for some reason and ended up telling him that I just wanted to be friends for the time-being. I also told him that I couldn't guarantee that my feelings wouldn't change into something more. After that conversation he left it up to me to prove that I really wanted to be friends with him and it took me about a week and a half to let him know I wanted to hang out with him. We started hanging out again and fell back into making out as well. A few weeks after that I told him that I was torn apart by my emotions; part of me really wanted to be with him and part of me just wanted to stay single and have fun and flirt. Things were normal for a little while after that and then he ended up becoming less available. The first week in August he helped me move into my new apartment. We ended up making out and fooling around a little that night. After that, I didn't see or talk to him for a while. I started to get the feeling that he didn't want to hang out with me anymore. It was over a week before I saw him again and then it was only for a couple of hours to go get some food. Since then, I haven't seen him and have barely spoken to him. A week ago, I couldn't stand it anymore and told him that I have feelings for him. I didn't say anything about wanting to be a couple or anything like that, I just told him that I care about him, that I want him to always be my friend(at the least) and always be in my life. His response was WTF? and he told me that he needed to go and think about it. Since then he has not contacted me at all. I am very confused by this. I would at least like some sort of response from him even if he were to tell me that he just wasn't into me anymore and has started to move on. Does anyone have any idea why he would be so distant and not contact me at all? Any ideas at all??
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| Thu, 08-26-2004 - 9:17am |
Well it sounds like he liked you, you kept pushing him away, and hes done being treated like a yo-yo.
