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What to do......
| Thu, 08-26-2004 - 7:58pm |
I am "currently" in a relationshop with this guy - he was incredible at the beginning as is any realtionship but has now become sour. When we are together and it is just the two of us, we have a great time together - no matter what we are doing; however when we are out with a group of mutual friends - its like we have been given cranky pills towardds one another. Not sure what to do or even if I should recitify it this time. I really like the guy a lot and enjoy the times we spend together. I am just not a mushy person in front of others and I think he feels rejected when we go out. I don't like being the mushy couple - yuk. I have to admit when we first started to date - I let him put his hand on my leg or even hold my hand, but I am a very undependant person and I do not like to show how vulnerable I can be. Do I try and work this out or should I let it all just go??

HOWEVER...no PDA would almost certainly be a deal-breaker for me, so it might be for him also.
I have to note that I'm an extremely independent person (one of my oldest guy friends never fails to remark on this when I talk to him about my dating woes, LOL) but I still enjoy PDA. I don't see how the two are related.
Sheri